iss topic te charcha di bahot lod h Gagan Deep Ji....
sirf charcha hi nahi balki iss soch nu badlan di v bahot lod h. Ajj na sirf smaj ch kise v pakho pichhde varg vich ae sab wapar rea h balki apne aap nu modren soch wale kahonde lok v piche nahi han. Aur ae sab to sharmnak gal h k unjh asi apne bacheya nu padone ha likhone ha bahar de mulka ch v pejde ha padayi layi kamayi layi, par jado ona de viah di gal ondi hai, ta jaat paat nu sab to upar rakheya janda baki gallan last te. Means banda (person) kida da h ae sab first priority h hi nahi, ae sab baad diya gallan han pela ae hi pucheya janda bi odi jaat ki h. Ajj asi bacheya nu sirf financially independent wekh k khush ha bas baki har tarah di independance de khilaf hi morcha rahnda hai. Jinna ne apni life spend karni ikk duje naal ona da decision kuch mayne nahi rakhda bas mayne rakhdi h ta jaat. Jinna asi har pakho trakki wal wad rahe ha asi apni soch oni hi pichhe chhadi ja rahe ha. Ajj de samaj ch jazbatan di gal karna v murakhta samjhi jandi h. Jo jazbati han ona nu impractical aakheya janda h. Pahli gal ta parents aap hi convince nahi hunde ona nu hi apne jaayeya (janmeya) di khushi nahi disdi, disda h te sirf samaj te ode banaye betuke asool. Kinne hi kanun bna layiye asi par samaj todan ch hi apni shan samajhda h fir chahe o kanun hoye kise da dil hoye ya kise diya haddiya. Ae uch neech khore kado pichha chadegi sada. Ik niki jahi saaf te sapasht gal pta nahi kyu samajh nahi ondi ena samaj te dharam de thekedara nu bi jinna ne naal rahna sirf ona di razamandi mayne rakhdi baki mayne rakhda h sab da ashirwad te duawa. Maneya k parents sadi bhalai chonde ne ona ne dunia vekhi life da experience sade nalo kite wadh h par kaash kade o apne bacheya da dil v pad laen.
Janwar v apne bacheya di parvarish odo tak karde ne jado o apne paira te khade nahi ho jande bhaw jado tak panchi uddan nahi lag jande te jad tak janwar apna bhojan aap labhan nahi lag jande, apni raksha aap nahi karan lag jande. Par insan nu ta jive hukumat karna hi pasand h. Sade waddeya nu eda kyu lagda k sirf ona di soch hi sahi h bas bache galat hi hunde ne. Sirf o hi decide kar sakde kuch v. Agar ik shaks ne hi decision laena c ta parmatma ne sab nu apna alag dimag kyu dita? Parmatama agar ae chonda ki sab di zindagi da faisla koi ik shaks hi kar sakda h ta pariwar ya samaj de mukhiya nu hi dimag dena si parmatma ne, bakiya nu lod v ki h apne alag independent dimag di?
Bahot kuch h aje kahan layi par shayad jwaab kuch jada hi wadda ho rea hai . . . ajj ae sab pad k rukeya nahi geya, twade iss topic ne mera andar hilla chhadeya h, shayad ae ik wawrola h, kuch pad k kuch likh k fer chup ho jayega . . . mera koi v shabad agar galat lageya hoye ta hath bann k muafi ji . . mera maksad kise nu hurt karna nahi. . .par ae sawal bahot bechain karde ne. . . kyu kyu kyu eda kyu ho rea h ? asi apni soch bajo ene piche kyu ja rahe ha?
Ik last gal hor kahna choni ha k ant wele asi ikalleya ne hi marna h, kise ne nal nahi jana, fir asi apni zindagi kyu aap nahi chun sakde? Agar koi apni khushi chunan di himmat kar v laye ta natije asi vekh hi rahe ha. Jabardasti kise nal rahan layi majbur karna viah de naam te ki jayez h? Viah de decision da siddha asar bacheya di zindagi te, ona di mental health te penda h, fer v ona da decision leana apni hi zindagi bare kyu galat japda h samaj nu?
bus ena hi keh sakde an k main khud v es jatiwaad da sikhar han..
...mere nal v bahut kuj inj da hunda Jo bardash nahi hunda beyaan karna v aokha lagda
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